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Thursday, January 1, 2015

Surah Ad Duha - The Ultimate Antidote for Depression

 Surah Ad Dhuha against Depression

By Amani Iqbal
Many of us know surah ad-duha off by heart and have probably read its meaning many times as well, which seems quite straightforward. How many of us, though, have actually gone into the reason behind its revelation and derived the lessons and implications this surah has in our lives?

This surah was revealed to Prophet Muhammad (Saw) at a time when he had not received any revelation for six months, not even in the form of a dream! The Prophet (saw) was in a very disturbed state of mind, feeling negative and depressed and believing that Allah was displeased with him, had forgotten him, and did not want him as a Nabi anymore.

Don’t we have similar feelings in our lives? Times when our level of imaan is low, our khushoo insalah wavers and we feel a drop in our connection with Allah? We feel like our duas are not being answered, our salah is not having a positive impact on our hearts, and worst of all the feeling that we’re horrible human beings, that Allah doesn’t love us or doesn’t care about us anymore.
Surah Ad-Duha was revealed to the Prophet (saw) to relieve him of these negative feelings and to give him hope, positivity, and the assurance that Allah is with him no matter what. From it we too can find peace, hope, and a renewed faith in Allah when we go through similar states of depression, sadness, and hopelessness.

So what does this surah say?

1) وَٱلضُّحَى
Wad duhaa
[By the morning brightness]

This is the first thing you need to hear when you’re depressed: Wake up, look at the sunshine! Everything in life is not doom and gloom– you just have to look up!

2وَٱلَّيْلِ إِذَا سَجَىٰ
Wal laili iza sajaa 
[And (by) the night when it covers with darkness]

Why is this aayah immediately talking about darkness? As a reminder to us that the night is meant to cover and give us comfort and rest.

Generally when we’re depressed, we tend to get into a very bad sleep pattern by staying up at night and sleeping all day, thereby worsening our state of mind. This aayah reminds us to use the night as a comfort to ease our distress.

3) مَا وَدَّعَكَ رَبُّكَ وَمَا قَلَىٰ
Ma wad da’aka rabbuka wa ma qalaa 
[Your Lord has not taken leave of you, (O Muhammad), nor has He detested (you)]

This is a very powerful verse from Allah telling us that He doesn’t hate us and hasn’t forgotten us– reminding the depressed person that He is always by his or her side!

4) وَلَلْـَٔاخِرَةُ خَيْرٌۭ لَّكَ مِنَ ٱلْأُولَى
Walal-aakhiratu khairul laka minal-oola
[And the Hereafter is better for you than the first (life)]

Many times when we’re depressed we think: Is this all my life is going to be? Is it never going to get better?

This aayah serves as a perfect answer to those questions, reminding us that life in this world is temporary and that Aakhira is certainly a better, more permanent place for us than this world could ever be.

This makes us look forward to attaining our place in Jannah and helps us look at any problems in our lives as temporary tests of our faith from Allah.

5) وَلَسَوْفَ يُعْطِيكَ رَبُّكَ فَتَرْضَىٰٓ
Wa la sawfa y’uteeka rabbuka fatarda 
[And your Lord is going to give you, and you will be satisfied]

A promise from Allah that very soon he will give us a massive reward (Jannah) and we will be happy! Subhanallah!

Isn’t this the best thing to hear when you’re depressed and fed up with this worldly life and the problems you’re facing?

6) أَلَمْ يَجِدْكَ يَتِيمًۭا فَـَٔاوَىٰ
Alam ya jidka yateeman fa aawaa 
[Did He not find you an orphan and give (you) refuge?]

From this verse onwards, Allah gives us reason to believe His declarations and promises in the first half of the surah.

Now many of us may think: how would this aayah about orphans relate to the majority of us?Think about it– weren’t there many times in your life when you were sick or lonely and felt like you had nobody who cared about you? Who was the only one by your side at that time? Allah! It was He who took care of you and guided you out of that stage in life.

7) وَوَجَدَكَ ضَآلًّۭا فَهَدَىٰ
Wa wa jadaka daal lan fahada 
[And He found you lost and guided (you)]

How many of us, despite being born Muslims, have found ourselves misguided and straying away from Islam in the past? It was Allah who gave us that hidaya and brought us back to the straight path and to Him and made us practicing Muslims. Alhamdulillah!

8) وَوَجَدَكَ عَآئِلًۭا فَأَغْنَىٰ
Wa wa jadaka ‘aa-ilan fa aghnaa
[And He found you poor and made (you) self-sufficient]

Many of us have probably gone through many periods in our lives when we have been short of money and wealth. Now when we look back we realize that it was only Allah who gave us thatrizq in some form and got us through those tough financial times.

When a person is depressed, giving him or her examples of how Allah has helped them in the past will strengthen their conviction and belief in the promises Allah makes in this surah for their future.

9) فَأَمَّا ٱلْيَتِيمَ فَلَا تَقْهَرْ
Fa am mal yateema fala taqhar
[So as for the orphan, do not oppress (him)]

This aayah is the ultimate antidote to depression!

Depressed people are mostly consumed with their situation and feel that nobody could possibly be in a worse situation.

This aayah reminds us to look at people who are in far worse situations than ourselves when we’re feeling hopeless and depressed— Look at the orphans, who have no family or loved ones and nobody to care for them. We have families and parents who love us, a roof over our heads and food on the table and we still think we’re in a bad situation? Subhanallah!

10) وَأَمَّا ٱلسَّآئِلَ فَلَا تَنْهَرْ
Wa am mas saa-ila fala tanhar
[And as for the petitioner, do not repel (him)]

Another example is of the beggar – to once again remind us of the many material blessings that Allah has given us that we take for granted – food, clothing and shelter. How many of us have ever gone to sleep hungry? How many of us don’t have clothes to wear? Or don’t have a home to go to?

These examples of the orphan and the beggar are ones we should constantly remind ourselves of to be thankful for the numerous blessings Allah has given us, get over our depression and feel connected to Allah again, out of gratitude.

11) وَأَمَّا بِنِعْمَةِ رَبِّكَ فَحَدِّثْ
Wa amma bi ne’mati rabbika fahad dith
[But as for the favor of your Lord, report (it)]

This final aayah is about maintaining that renewed faith and bond with Allah – by pondering, glorifying and talking about the blessings of Allah! Either in terms of halaqas, discussions with family and friends or even da’wah! Dhikr, reading quran and listening to lectures are also great ways to keep the remembrance of Allah close to your heart!

So the next time you feel disconnected, disheartened or depressed with your level of Imaan and your connection with Allah – read Surah Ad Duha and ponder over its meanings – Inshallah it will restore your faith and increase your belief in the greatness and power of Allah.

صدق الله العظيم
[Allah Almighty Speaks The Truth]

Wednesday, December 31, 2014

Mawlid Is Not From Loving The Prophet

Mawlid is bid'ah


Rabi'ul Awwal 12 H

Celebrating & participating in Mawlid out of love for the Prophet

There is nothing in the Qur’aan to say that we should celebrate the Mawlid or birthday of the Prophet SallAllaahu Alayhi wa Sallam. The Prophet himself SallAllaahu Alayhi wa Sallam did not do this or command anyone to do it, either during his lifetime or after his death.
The Sahaabah (may Allah be pleased with them) were the people who loved the Prophet SallAllaahu Alayhi waSallam most. They  had a greater love and respect for him, and were more aware of his rights, than those who came after them....

Tuesday, December 23, 2014

A Dialogue of Truth vs Falsehood

Truth vs falsehood


Assalamualaikkum my dear reader friends, today I want to share an amazing dialogue or you may rather call it a debate between a well-informed Muslim student and his Atheist Professor, regarding the existence of God. Each and every bit will keep you wonderstruck, as the Muslim brother explains Islam using logic, wisdom and scientific theories. Can't wait to read?!!.......Go and grab for yourself a mug of coffee, sit back relaxed................now START...

33 Tips to launch your personal Battle against Racism and Nationalism

Jihad against Racism and Nationalism

 
  


By Abdul Malik 

Alhamdulillah, all Masjids in the world are open to all people. Muslims pray shoulder to shoulder with no regard to any national, ethnic, class or color differences. Islamic egalitarianism still gains converts from the untouchables of India to Malcolm X and Muhammad Ali in America. However, this dominant reality is sometimes marred by individual behavior, which is contrary to the ideals of Islam.
Some Muslims fall for the age-old trick of Satan and start playing the silly inferiority/superiority game. Some stereotype others and tolerate prejudice against other human beings, despite the fact that all human beings are equal, from the same man and woman. (Quran 49:13)

Sunday, December 14, 2014

Conditions You Must Meet to Benefit from the Qur’an

Conditions to benefit from the Qur'an

اللَّهُ نَزَّلَ أَحْسَنَ الْحَدِيثِ كِتَابًا مُّتَشَابِهًا مَّثَانِيَ تَقْشَعِرُّ مِنْهُ جُلُودُ الَّذِينَ يَخْشَوْنَ رَبَّهُمْ ثُمَّ تَلِينُ جُلُودُهُمْ وَقُلُوبُهُمْ إِلَىٰ ذِكْرِ اللَّهِ ۚ ذَٰلِكَ هُدَى اللَّهِ يَهْدِي بِهِ مَن يَشَاءُ ۚ وَمَن يُضْلِلِ اللَّهُ فَمَا لَهُ مِنْ هَادٍ

“Allah has sent down the best statement, a Book (this Qur’an), its parts resembling each other in goodness and truth, oft-repeated. The skins of those who fear their Lord shiver from it (when they recite it or hear it). Then their skin and their heart soften to the remembrance of Allah. That is the guidance of Allah. He Guides therewith whom He pleases and whomever Allah sends astray, for him there is no guide. [Soorah Az-Zumar, v: 23]

Thursday, December 11, 2014

Xmas gift to Christians?


Should we Muslims join in the celebrations of non-Islamic festivals?


A very well explained speech on whether or not Muslims are allowed to present gifts to Christians or Hindus on Christmas, Diwali etc.

Sunday, December 7, 2014

Powerful Tips for the Last 10 Nights of Ramadan


Subhaanallah, the last 10 days of Ramadan - in it contains the Night of Power, Laylatul Qadr. Ramadan slips from our hands like sand. But, our Most Merciful Allah has kept the best for the last. And so, in this final 1/3rd portion, it's time to sprint and make the best of these last days.

Wednesday, December 3, 2014

Sunday, November 30, 2014

The Month of Safar - Innovations & Superstitions

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Allah says....
Verily, the number of months with Allah is twelve months (in a year), so it was ordained by Allah on the Day when He created the heavens and the earth; of them, four are sacred. That is the right religion, so wrong not yourselves therein…” (At-Tawbah, v:36) The month of Safar is one of the twelve Hijri months, and it is the month which comes after Muharram.

Saturday, November 29, 2014

A Muslim's Attitude to Trials

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As part of our Islamic faith, we believe that all matters are in the hands of Allah. However, for some of us our faith can get shaken during times of trials and hardships. It is during those times though that we should remind ourselves that a believer’s position and rank is raised in front of Allah and that such a hardship may very well be a sign of Allah’s love for the believer. This can help us in maintaining & strengthening our faith, increasing our righteous deeds, which will finally take us to Paradise, inshaAllah!

Wednesday, November 19, 2014

35 ways to respect our parents



May Allah give us sense of ability to follow the guidelines to respect our dear parents and thereby enter Paradise with them.....Aameen. 

Monday, November 17, 2014

The Salaf and the way they valued their time



Al-Hassan Al-Basri May Allah's Mercy be upon him said: “Oh son of Aadam, you are but a few days, whenever a day is gone, part of you is gone too.” 

Monday, October 27, 2014

Check-point of our life : 40








“Verily Allah, with Him (Alone) is the knowledge of the Hour, He sends down the rain, and know that which is in the wombs. No person knows what he will earn tomorrow, and no person knows in what land he will die. Verily, Allah is All-Knower, All-Aware.”
(Aayah No. 34, Surah Luqman, Chapter No. 31, Holy Qur’an).

Sunday, October 26, 2014

Virtues of Sacred Month of Muharram










Muharram is the 1st month of the Hijri year. This month is one of the 4 months ordained by Allah as sacred, namely, Muharram, Rajab, Dhul Qa'da and Dhul Hijja. No crimes of injustice, oppression or fighting is permitted in these months. In the month of Muharram, many major events in the history of Allah's Prophets has taken place and so is a month of great blessings. 

Thursday, October 2, 2014

'Not now, I'm not ready'



For us Muslims, we should take a lesson from the deaths of people, especially young people, and realize that at some point death will also come upon us - not when we are ready for it, but when it has been decreed for us. Many people today focus on how to live longer and how to enjoy their lives to the fullest, but they neglect correcting their own selves until it is too late. At the time the Angel of Death comes to any one of us, we certainly will not be able to say, "Not now, I'm not ready."

Tuesday, September 30, 2014

Making the Most of the Blessed Days of Dhul-Hijjah


Four Things to Do on the Blessed 10 Days of Dhul Hijjah

Allah the Most High & Exalted says: “By the Dawn; By the ten nights” [Surah Al-Fajr:1-2]

This oath substantiates the greatness and sacredness of these ten nights in the eyes of Allah. This is an extraordinary oath; it is very significant and the wise men can understand that by this oath, Allah too attaches great importance and value to the ten nights of Dhul Hijjah. By taking full opportunity of this verse's great message to serve our Lord near to perfection in these 10 days, one can be sure of Allah's promise to attain forgiveness and a great status in this world and the best in Paradise.

MODESTY - The Start-off to Paradise



In Islam, shyness—known as Haya' (الحياء)—is a core virtue for both men and women. Far from being a weakness or social anxiety, it is considered a fundamental branch of faith that guides individuals away from indecent actions and helps them maintain self-respect, dignity, and a strong consciousness of Allah.

Wednesday, August 6, 2014

Let's train our kids for Jannatul Firdous!

Righteous Kids
 

Assalamualaikkum to all of you.. . today InshaAllah I am going to share some insight into how we, as Muslims, should hold an attitude of clean thinking about our Creator and expect the best from The Lord of all the worlds as regards raising up our children on the straight path (Siraatul Mustaqeem) with the right guidance (Huda) and ultimately to the eternal bliss...Jannatul Firdous - Delightful Paradise!

Saturday, August 2, 2014

Fasting in Shawwal

Fasting 6 days in Shawwal

  

Shaikh Uthaymeen may Allah have mercy on him, said about fasting the six days of Shawwal:

“The wisdom behind fasting the six days of Shawwal is the same as the wisdom regarding other optional acts which Allah has ordained for His Servants in order to make the obligatory actions complete.  So fasting the six days of Shawwal is like the supererogatory Sunnah prayers [ar-Raatibah] which are performed after the obligatory prayers in order to complete any deficiencies in them. And from Allah, the Most High’s, Wisdom is that He made Sunnah [prayers] for the obligatory ones in order to complete them and raise them [in rank], so fasting the six days of Shawwal has this great benefit.”